The teen years are an exciting time biologically, psychologically and socially.Teens today, more than ever, need adults that see them and their future as a positive and hopeful place that welcomes them and their unique gifts.

Santa Cruz County and Central Coast Resource Links for Parents

  • WIC: Voucher program offering health food for children ages 0-5. Foster children automatically qualify. Community Bridges WIC Program at http://communitybridges.org/wic/.

  • Early Head Start: Weekly home visiting program to support developmental growth of children age 0-3. Foster children automatically qualify.

  • Head Start: Preschool for children ages 3-5. Foster children automatically qualify.

  • CASA: Adult volunteers serve as mentors and advocates for children in foster care. http://www.casaofsantacruz.org/.

  • First Five: Program offering support in enhancing education, health and well-being for families of children 0-5. http://www.first5scc.org/.

  • Covered California: Providing low-income Californians with access to affordable, high-quality health care, including medical, mental health, substance abuse treatment services and long-term care. http://www.coveredca.com/.

  • San Andreas Regional Center: Serves children and adults with developmental disabilities. https://www.sanandreasregional.org/

TRAINING AND SUPPORT

FUN ACTIVITIES FOR KIDS

OTHER USEFUL LINKS

  • Kids Data: Find data about the health and well-being of children in communities across California. http://www.kidsdata.org/

  • Child and Family Web Guide - Tufts University: A directory that evaluates, describes, and provides links to hundreds of sites containing child developmental research and practical advice. http://ase.tufts.edu/cfw/

  • Foster Parent Considering Adoption: A government publication covering issues useful for foster parents to consider when thinking about permanency. http://www.childwelfare.gov/pubs/f_fospar.pdf (PDF, 512 KB)

  • Foster Youth Help: The website designed specifically for foster youth, provides an overview of relevant laws, rights and resources. http://www.fosteryouthhelp.ca.gov

Parenting Books

Parenting Young Children

No Bad Kids by Janey Lansbury

THE GARDENER AND THE CARPENTER By Alison Gopnik

THE EMOTIONAL LIFE OF THE TODDLER By Alicia Leiberman

Safe Infant Sleep: Expert Answers to Your Co-sleeping Questions, by James McKenna

When the World Feels Like a Scary Place: Essential Conversations for Anxious Parents and Worried Kids, by Abigail Gewirtz

Confident Parents, Confident Kids: Raising Emotional Intelligence in Ourselves and Our Kids—from Toddlers to Teenagers, by Jennifer Miller

The Power of Showing Up: How Parental Presence Shapes Who Our Kids Become and How Their Brains Get Wired, by Daniel Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson

Ready or Not: Preparing Our Kids to Thrive in an Uncertain and Rapidly Changing World, by Madeline Levine

Decoding Boys: New Science Behind the Subtle Art of Raising Sons, by Cara Natterson

The Whole Brain Child by Dr. Dan Siegel

PEACEFUL PARENT, HAPPY KIDS By Laura Markham

Positive Discipline by Jan Nelsen Ed.D.

All Joy and No Fun: the paradox of modern parenting by Jennifer Senior

Raising Your Spirited Child by Mary Sheedy Kurcinka

Parenting Teens and Young Adults

The Gift of Failure by Jessica Leahy

Untangled by Lisa Damour PhD.

Brainstorm: The Power and Purpose of the Teenage Brain by Dr. Dan Siegel

Fourteen Talks by 14 by Michelle Icard

The Five Love Languages of Teenagers by Gary Chapman

How to Talk So Teens Will Listen and Listen So Teens Will Tal
k by Adele Faber

Parents and Families living with children on the Autism Spectrum:

COVID Related:

How to Support Children (and Yourself) During the COVID-19 Outbreak, Center on the Developing Child at Harvard University

DIVORCE RESOURCES

  • https://safeandsound.org/for-parents/family-support/kids-turn/

  • For Parents:

  • Talking to Children About Divorce: A Parent's Guide to Healthy Communication at Each Stage of Divorce by Jean McBride MS LMFT

  • Vicki Lansky's Divorce Book for Parents: Helping Your Children Cope with Divorce and Its Aftermath 

  • For kids:

  • You Weren't with Me by Chandra Gosh-Ippen and 

  • The Invisible String by Patrice Karst (Author), Joanne Lew-Vriethoff (Illustrator)

  • It's Not Your Fault, Koko Bear by Vicki Lansky.

  • Dinosaurs Divorce (Dino Tales: Life Guides for Families) by Marc Brown

The Best Thing You Can Do for Your Children is to Eliminate Screen Time and Give Them a Childhood.