“Where there is nothing left to hide, there is nothing left to seek.”
Ester Perel, author of “Mating in Captivity”
What if… this is an opportunity for personal and relational growth?
Relationships are where we want to soar and be our best, yet often find ourselves showing up our worst. We crave safety, yet don’t know how to traverse the chasms that often separate us from ourselves and those we love.
Change can be scary, yet change is an expected and normal part of growth in every relationship.
With support and the development of new tools and skills you will find yourself feeling more confidence in your ability to:
name your desires
state boundaries with clarity, love and confidence
listen, reflect and validate your partner(s)
feel proud of the new ways you understand and communicate your emotions
create or revise agreements
I enjoy working with folks in both traditional and nontraditional partnerships, marriages and families, and at all stages of relationship development.
Therapy might be appropriate if you want to explore:
Premarital counseling
Attachment issues: bonding with a partner or children
Communication Skills and problem solving
Desire discrepancy
Intimacy and communication breakdowns
Sexual expression, exploring kink
Impacts of health challenges on your relationship
Ethical Non-monogamy (ENM)
Polyamory